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Thursday, May 10, 2012

The Who Not The How

I was talking with someone recently who voiced a lack of confidence in her prayers and a discomfort about praying in front of others. I felt led to suggest something to her that I will mention at the end of this post.

There are some simply wonderful books and teachings out there about prayer. I have some favorites I could recommend written by Andrew Murray, Stormie Omartian, Beth Moore, John Eckhardt, Germaine Copeland, and Dutch Sheets, to name just a few. They each hold gems of truth that the authors have gleaned from the Word of God and no doubt from their own personal experiences.

Some of their themes include praying out loud, praying scriptures, praying in the Spirit, praying first thing in the morning, writing out your prayers, thanking God in advance, praying continually, praying for a designated hour, praying with others and praying privately, praying persistently but not praying repetitiously, praying fervently, and praying with right motives. The inventory of ways to pray could go on and on. It would seem as if some contradict others, but that is not true. All of these methods are biblically sound, have been proven powerful and are worthy of pursuit. Each has its proper place in the course of our life of faith.

Now take a few minutes and compare how you talk at home versus elsewhere, with elsewhere being job, home, church, hometown, unfamiliar place (where you know you’ll never be seen again!), a courtroom, school meeting, sporting event, crowded coffee shop, concert, etc. Then think on your varying conversations with workmates, your boss, acquaintances, your pastor, siblings, a counselor, in-laws, a police officer at your driver’s side window, your best friend, your parent, etc. You get my drift? Perhaps a little variation occurs in your vernacular with each one. If you were asking for a favor, a need, a want, you might do it differently with each one, and with each request you would already have a sense about whether they could actually make it happen. Even how you greet, question, praise and have small talk with others may vary dependent on who it is and what the circumstances are, right?

In each situation hopefully we consider the one we are communicating with. And that very person always has an identity, a name, a personality, a presence, a capacity that we are drawn to and gear our heart and mouth towards.  Sounds to me a little like the varying ways we pray.

The key of real prayer, in all its many forms, is that it is with the great I AM, trusting in the ONE whose life and death and life again was to save and bless our very lives. And if we believe that the very name of JESUS holds the greatest power to create or change things, we can use that name in faith, believing. The rest just might be formal details.

You probably know someone who is a little self conscious about praying in front of others; perhaps even in front of God. In fact it might even be you! Maybe it’s just a general extension of being uncomfortable speaking “formally” in front of others about anything.

Or it could be that compared to others you might feel less proficient at prayer because you don’t know or remember all the right scriptures or “lingo” of effective prayer. How regretful that anyone put a quotient on prayer effectiveness. I don’t think that was ever God’s intent.

So what makes our prayers upright, worthy, acceptable and accepted?

I guess that would be all about the Who they are directed to and the relational trust we have in that Who.

So, about the person I mentioned at the beginning of this post. She needed to get some things off her chest, and sounded pretty comfortable doing so. She poured out her heart, voicing faults and hopes. I gave some appropriate nods, a few affirming comments, a question or two for clarification. But mostly I felt like I was eavesdropping. Because when she was done I felt prompted to tell her what I had heard from God, which was …

“I know sometimes you feel like you haven’t prayed nearly enough, or the right way …

But some of your best times are like today, when you just have coffee with your DADDY!”

Gratefully HIS,

Jan






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